Part three.
🟠 "I love you and chomp." (c)
3️⃣ Biting as a form of primal interaction.
It can be classified as a type of tactile contact, social interaction, dominance play, and many other forms of engagement. Let’s break it down step by step.
🐾 A primal may bite in defense or attack, because it would be strange not to use such a wonderful natural weapon we’ve been given. However, pushing a self-controlled primal to the point of truly strong bites is no easy feat. Even though we are all predators (and those who aren’t still know how to defend themselves), very few engage in fights just for the sake of it.
🐾 Biting can be an expression of:
emotions,
tenderness when words feel unnecessary or unwanted,
passion when words are not enough,
relaxation when words are simply redundant. There are countless variations.
🐾 Some believe that biting is something scary. Yes, when a person is angry and out of control, it can indeed be unpleasant or even dangerous. However, we are still humans, and we understand that randomly biting everyone whenever we feel like it won’t end well. The ideal pressure and intensity should always be discussed beforehand, and it is crucial to control the force of the bite. That being said, some believe that "biting isn't very beastly." I won’t argue—if both partners in a pair are comfortable with their own style and aren’t trying to impose it on others, then everything is fine.
🐾 You can bite anywhere, but keep in mind:
skin thickness,
sensitivity,
what’s beneath the skin,
whether the area is exposed or visible.
After all, we are still social creatures.
🐾 Superficial and strong bites can be very painful. Try a wider grip, as if grasping the muscle rather than simply pressing down with your teeth. This can make the experience much more enjoyable. Hint: Unlike other muscles, we don’t have as much fine control over our jaw muscles. So before biting someone, practice on your own arm to gauge the right amount of pressure.
🐾 Let your partner know that biting can leave marks. They should be mentally prepared for this possibility.
🐾 Even if your partner is submissive, they may still want to bite. Whether you allow it or not is up to you. But before deciding, think about what your bites mean and why they are needed.
🟠 Biting is a sensual, intimate, and informative form of interaction for primals.
It conveys emotions, attitudes, and deep feelings toward a partner.
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